Esther Perel | Modern Love and Relationships | SXSW 2018
Esther Perel: The Truth About Infidelity, Intimacy, and Love with Lewis Howes
We walk through life, without realising how precious is the time. "For time is what life is made of."
They say that job defines people, because it is an extension of who they are. That can be true but only for some.
I will explain my entire reflection on this.
Some people go to regular work to earn money... however their work is only a medium to make a living. Their self-realization comes from another aspects of their life which can be doing sports... relationship...or parenting. And that's completely fine.
Quotes I am in love with
"Everything we ever wanted is on the other side of fear.''
"To those who wait, time opens every door.'' Chinese proverb
''Your mind is not going to help your heart to heal.''
"I was too kind, too empathetic, too good, too friendly, too nice, too open, too eager, too close, too available, too feminine, too compationate, too trustful, too naive, too childlike with wonder, too enthusiastic to get to know you, to get on with you. And from you, dear unknown or known one, I have learned to be realistic, rational, more private, more selfish, more closed and distant. Yesterday I was one who would run to you, today I am one who loves running as a sport activity. Yesterday I was searching, waiting, hoping, today I am content.
"Why do we always feel the need to explain ourselves, when others will always hear what they want to hear?
Why do we sometimes say: “maybe”, when deep down we’d rather say “yes” or “no”?
Player (playboy) wants to seduce you, good man wants to impress you." Brian Nox
Fall in love with yourself now and forever, don't ever "fall" in love with anyone, instead, "rise and grow" in love with those who matter for you. Expand the love, multiple it, and sometimes let it go if it wants to go, let it come to you, let it fly high into the sky. You cannot put love into a cage. Love is free.
If this was your last day of your life on the earth, how would you live it ?