It is said that when woman wins her lover's affection with her eyes, this love is an intellectual affair. But when she wins her lover's affection with her lips, it is a passionate affair.
Take my hand and let's go really deep...let's visit places we have never been before...let's discover undiscovered...let's feel, sense and realize things that are meaningful. I try not to live shallow, I'm always doing two things, either diving deep or flying too high. If you want to understand me, overtake me, sometimes neither do I understand myself :-)
My favourite youtuber wrote: " Shine your light and be the best example you can be
Your team, your friends, your family
While some inconvenient times you know who is your real friend and who is your false friend. Your real friends are: people who are by you and with you, support you when you feel down, encourage you when you can't make a decision, are your funs when you are in your element, advice you when you are confused, help you in every possible way when you are in trouble, express their care and love by contacting you, hugging you, caressing you. These are your friends, your team, your broad family, your close ones, your beloved ones.
I have had busy weeks lately too much work, too much things to do, manage, handle and go thru. Suddenly, I found myself having a burn out syndrome. Nothing interesting, just boring long hours. Ubearable waiting, waiting for clouds to clear out. Waiting for sun to shine in my life again. I had to slow down, even when this is a totally different attitude that I adapt in my life. I love to change things, to search things, to analyze, to discover, to think, to improve, to write, to translate. Sometimes I behave like a laic scientist :-)
After years the same things get sometimes on our nerves, can irritate or obstruct us. We don't have to change radically the way we live, people we meet, food we eat. Things that are ment to last for years, are grown slow. Sometimes, little change here and there, can make a big difference. Novelty is opposite to known, familiar, comfortable, safe, regular, boring. Novelty, is when you don't play it safe, when you are on the edge of something, when you buy oneway ticket, when you say goodbye to attachment, when you open new doors.
It's always better to tell the truth rather than the lies or white lies. Because you will mislead people with your lies. Moreover, we should end things elegantly, with no deceit, made up stories or drama. You own that to other people.
People who have disappointed me in my life were those from who I had the most expectation.
And people from who I had no expectation, gave me more than I have ever imagined and wanted.
Today, I thank all of them, because I have learned, I grew up. I'm stronger because of them. And I know who belongs in my life and who doesn't.
Recently I have learned that to have no expectation equals a happy life. No expectation from people is a way for freedom and peace of mind. You free yourself from anxiety and you don't waste your time anymore.