Those who are too empathetic, hypersensitive, fragile, too spiritual, etheric, vulnerable should learn to be more self focused, strong, materialistic and subjective rather than objective.
Those who are materialistic, too shallow, who take everything for granted should learn the spiritual, humanic and abstract attributes and start thinking about others rather than only about themselves.
When this is cultivated it can shift the relationships among people to most enriching hights and to another level.
Your body is more beautiful than you think. Layla Martin
There are people who tend to bring the best in others and the beauty the abstract one: your vibe, charisma, charm, energy, etheric, aura, soul is the first thing that catches their inner vision. What do you see first "pretty woman" or "pretty soul" ?
If the world was blind how would you impress them ? or If you were blind what would impress you ? :-)
Sometimes, some people are so self-absorbed, so egocentric, and goal-oriented, profit chasers that they think only about themselves. The world doesn't revolve around them. These people need to cultivate empathy, kindness and understanding. They don't care about personal reasons, or feelings of others.
Yes, disappointment hurts so much. When you trust someone, and you "give it all", you loose. Never make anyone more important than you. Some people are so mean, and treat you ill, and you forgive them, because you see through them, you see their ugliness and beauty. And you excuse and overlook their toxic behaviour. But, how mistaken you are, it's a road that leads to nowhere, it's darkness with no light, a bankrupt of your feelings. They have nothing to give. Emptiness.
“If you want to live together, you first need to learn how to live apart.” – Anonymous
I have learned to say No to worry and Yes to life.
When children seek positive or negative attention, this means they want more love.
"Examining how babies behave in certain circumstances where adults struggle is instructive in so many ways. The reason for that is that babies still have something we were all born with, but often lose: the birthright of confidence. Unless they are in direct pain or discomfort, babies don’t cry. They don’t create false realities, project about what the future will bring, or feel fearful of things that haven’t happened yet, be it a plane crash, an exam, or a presentation at work, they don’t stress about their appearance.
Women who are abused
The abuse is usually psychological, sexual, or physical.
Most of the abusive relationships are kept in secret, out of shame and fear. Women are ashamed to talk about it, reveal it, so they pretend that nothing happened, they swep the abuse under the carpet.
Abusive relationship damage your self-worth and self-esteem. You can lose your identity. It's toxic and you feel alone or different.
Maybe "me too" movement can change something, at least women feel that they are not alone.