When you give it all, you loose.

Yes, disappointment hurts so much. When you trust someone, and you "give it all", you loose. Never make anyone more important than you. Some people are so mean, and treat you ill, and you forgive them, because you see through them, you see their ugliness and beauty. And you excuse and overlook their toxic behaviour. But, how mistaken you are, it's a road that leads to nowhere, it's darkness with no light, a bankrupt of your feelings. They have nothing to give. Emptiness.

Insightful thoughts

"Examining how babies behave in certain circumstances where adults struggle is instructive in so many ways. The reason for that is that babies still have something we were all born with, but often lose: the birthright of confidence. Unless they are in direct pain or discomfort, babies don’t cry. They don’t create false realities, project about what the future will bring, or feel fearful of things that haven’t happened yet, be it a plane crash, an exam, or a presentation at work, they don’t stress about their appearance.

Women who are abused

Women who are abused

The abuse is usually psychological, sexual, or physical.
Most of the abusive relationships are kept in secret, out of shame and fear. Women are ashamed to talk about it, reveal it, so they pretend that nothing happened, they swep the abuse under the carpet.
Abusive relationship damage your self-worth and self-esteem. You can lose your identity. It's toxic and you feel alone or different.
Maybe "me too" movement can change something, at least women feel that they are not alone.

The composition of our happiness.

Sometimes, somebody's "no" can be our "yes" to ourselves. This can universally transform your life to depths. Never ever you would expect this shattering transformation to change you, in a such positive way. In a way that literally can save your life. You become empowered woman/man the day you discover self-love. And you learn to let go those who don't love you, you learn not to give a shit what others think of you and you learn not to give shit when others take you for granted. These things matter, or shall I say abstracts ?