Some thoughts about beauty:
If there is a man who wants to be impressed by "Barbie like beauty"... you don't need him. If there is someone who finds "your mind attractive" ...he is the one.
Physical beauty fades with time, however inner beauty is permanent.
Beauty can blind you. Both physical and inner :-)
You can beautify yourself with cosmetics and make up, but what really matters is your raw, naked, natural beauty. Because it is real you, not someone else.
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What is luck?
I have found this definition on Wikipedia: it is notably positive or negative impact on events.
During past many years I have heard from people around me these affirmations: I have luck. It's only luck. I'm lucky. It's my lucky day. Or the opposite: I'm unlucky. It's unluck. It's my unlucky day.
So what is luck ? In other words how most people pursue it ?
Many people pursue it as something that randomly happens to them, or as something they deserve or not deserve, or as something like a fate.
Do you have drive in everything you do ? In every step you make ? The passion ? The ultimate love for life itself ? The magnetism that attracts you to "things" that you love ? So, don't hold on...just wake up, shack up and get up. Walk your path, dance your way up the ice-berg of your goals, dreams and love(s).
It's your obligation, commitment and it's your decision to be your own superstar, superhero, super extra one for yourself for life time.
You don't need the luggage to carry, "free you come, free you go", "alone you are born (unless you have a twin sister or brother), alone you die."
No attachment is your inner freedom.
Look at the lotus flower, it grows from mud, the most beautiful flower grows from not the cleanest water.
It's a metaphor from life.
Those who are too empathetic, hypersensitive, fragile, too spiritual, etheric, vulnerable should learn to be more self focused, strong, materialistic and subjective rather than objective.
Those who are materialistic, too shallow, who take everything for granted should learn the spiritual, humanic and abstract attributes and start thinking about others rather than only about themselves.
When this is cultivated it can shift the relationships among people to most enriching hights and to another level.
There are people who tend to bring the best in others and the beauty the abstract one: your vibe, charisma, charm, energy, etheric, aura, soul is the first thing that catches their inner vision. What do you see first "pretty woman" or "pretty soul" ?
If the world was blind how would you impress them ? or If you were blind what would impress you ? :-)
Sometimes, some people are so self-absorbed, so egocentric, and goal-oriented, profit chasers that they think only about themselves. The world doesn't revolve around them. These people need to cultivate empathy, kindness and understanding. They don't care about personal reasons, or feelings of others.
Yes, disappointment hurts so much. When you trust someone, and you "give it all", you loose. Never make anyone more important than you. Some people are so mean, and treat you ill, and you forgive them, because you see through them, you see their ugliness and beauty. And you excuse and overlook their toxic behaviour. But, how mistaken you are, it's a road that leads to nowhere, it's darkness with no light, a bankrupt of your feelings. They have nothing to give. Emptiness.